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ZOOM COACHING

I’m based in San Francisco, and I offer the option to meet in person, but I also work with singles nationwide.

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STRATEGIC DATING

You make strategic choices for your career, why not your love life? Real growth happens outside our comfort zone.

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WING WOMAN

I go out with you — to social settings — and help you connect: attract, approach, and converse with women.

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As a dating coach, my job is to help you to identify the challenges you’re having with dating, provide strategies and coaching around ways to overcome those, so that you can ultimately attract the romantic partner of your dreams. I focus on areas like communication, improving confidence, coping with rejection, and learning to effectively court a woman into the relationship status you desire. This is done through one-to-one coaching sessions, role-playing exercises, and sometimes even practical experiences “out in the wild.”  

Drawing on my background as a licensed psychotherapist, I help you understand what the problem is and coach you to break through psychological barriers (such as fear of rejection/being drawn to toxic women).

I offer you the woman’s perspective, to clue you into what women want and how to get the woman of your dreams and relationship status you desire. I do not have a one-size-fits-all approach, as every man comes in with a different set of skills, needs, challenges, and goals.

I offer various programs that align with your needs and goals. We can identify the appropriate program for you during the complimentary 15-minute Zoom consultations that I offer.    

From learning how to ask woman out, to overcoming a string of failed relationships, to leveling up your game so that you can find your person and get married, I meet you where you right where you are without judgement. I help you select a program that makes the most sense for you, so that you can appropriately invest in your personal life and attain the love life you desire. 

If you are a virgin and have never been on a first date – I can help you!   

If you are struggling and have no idea how to talk to women – I can help you!

If you are insecure around women and petrified of dating – I can help you!

If you hate online dating and want to learn how to meet someone organically – I can help you! 

If you have a string of failed relationships and want a successful one – I can help you! 

If you constantly find yourself rescuing women and want to date a woman that can meet her own needs – I can help you! 

If you’re newly divorced and brand new to modern dating – I can help you! 

If you’ve been career obsessed but want to shift your priorities and find time for a meaningful relationship – I can help you! 

If you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable women and want to change that – I can help you! 

If you paint the red flags green and want to learn how to pick better – I can help you!

If you’ve been on a dating hiatus and want to get back in the game with some guidance – I can help you! 

If you are a master dater wanting to level up and find your person for life – I can help you! 

If you are in a relationship and need help deciding if it’s time to pop the question – I can help you! 

If you’re socially isolated and work from home, but don’t know where to begin organically meeting women – I can help you! 

If you consistently end up in the friend zone and want to be in the romance zone – I can help you! 

Are you able to be honest and open about what you are facing?

Are you ready to hold yourself accountable?

Are you receptive to direct feedback?

Are you willing to do the work?

If so, let’s do this.

We work together to identify and tackle the challenges in your dating life. My services are tailored to meet your unique set of challenges, needs, and goals.

  • I can help prepare you from “will you meet me for a cup of coffee?” to “I do”.
  • I can help prepare you from a state of hopelessness to a state of empowerment and confidence, knowing how select and appropriately court the woman you want to be with long-term.
  • For the man that’s in relationship and is ready to propose – I will successfully guide you through that process.
  • I can teach you how to effectively court a woman — going back to old school methods like talking to women in real life — so that you can find and ultimately marry the woman you’ve been endlessly swiping for.


I get you from A to Z, whatever that looks like for you. I meet you at your skill level and attentively listen to your goals.

I assess your needs during the complimentary 15-minute intake Zoom call and use my clinical training, education, and experience to help you identify the best program to generate the results you want. 

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Are you curious if I am the right coach for you? Let’s meet and see! I welcome you to schedule a complimentary 15-minute initial consultation.

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ABOUT DATE COACHING
My entire 20s I was focused on my job and having new experiences, I never thought I would want or need help with dating. But as time went by, nearly 10 years into my career, I had no soulmate, no prospects and no real confidence things were going to be better even though I told myself eventually they would be. I needed guidance. Lauren's coaching helped me navigate dating. It was not confidence I needed, it was her advice on where to meet quality women, how to create real/romantic connections, and how to pace myself toward commitment - invaluable stuff. And her approach puts things into perspective. I'm now engaged to an amazing woman and It feels great. I'm grateful to Lauren for helping me find her.
Chris
Chris
I remember when I decided to shed my introverted nature and start dating. It was definitely a huge step outside my comfort zone, but thanks to the advice, encouragement and insight of Dr. Lauren Lowe, I found the journey to be very rewarding and eye opening. Not only did she help me figure out what I wanted out of a healthy relationship, she also guided me through several relationships that did not work out and helped me to reach a level of positive self awareness in order to come to terms with those events. Thanks to Dr. Lowe, I now view dating as something to look forward to and as an opportunity to share my life with others. Thank you for taking the time to read my testimonial and I hope your experiences with Dr Lowe will be as fruitful and as positive as they were for me.
Derek
Derek
Modern dating sucks: endless swiping, many first dates that go nowhere, and eventually demoralization and you give up! Lauren changed all that for me. Coaching from Lauren is like talking with your friend who wants you to land that special someone, and gives you good advice and the moxie to use that advice in real life. The Goose to your Maverick. After working with Lauren I feel more confident, I got the girl I want, and that dating doesn't have to be what modern dating has become.
Robert
Robert
Lauren Lowe helped me so much in my love life. The truth is I, and all men, have blind spots. Even though I would have the “right intent” I would still fall short with women. Lauren helped me see what women really wanted, why, and when. This was a moving target tha I was blind to. A moving target that lives in my “blind spot”. But no more….. I thought I was good with women. But I made a lot of unforced and errors and more importantly, missed many opportunities. Lauren helped me see how I could be more of the man that woman envision. More of the man that helps and soothes my woman. By bringing out me, I brought the best out of my girl, and then- and only then - did I get what I was wanted.
Tim
I was referred to Lauren by a past client and a friend of mine. After 6 years of really crappie online dating I was frustrated, annoyed, disheartened and quite frankly ready to give up. That is when I decided to hire Lauren. I completed the 12 week program and her Master Class, and very much appreciated the Dress for Success program. I didnt realize how significant that was (appearance and presentation), until i saw the way women responded to it. Lauren was with me every step of the way. It was support in real time. The attention to detail was extraordinary. Within 6 months of completing the programs, I was able to get into a serious and meaningful relationship. We are now planning a wedding in Greece in the fall! Before meeting Lauren I was able to talk to women but Lauren taught me how to navigate the dating world. I learned what a woman wants in a man and how to be a gentleman with women. I got exactly what I wanted out of the program the future with my fiancé is without limits. Lauren will be invited to the wedding as I credit my success in this relationship to her. Thank you Lauren.
Nick